What is a REAL & TRUE, LOYAL, HONOURABLE Friend?
This is for all the people who think they know me and they don't.
As you read down the page you will see and maybe notice some of the things that have actually occurred in my life, so in actual fact these are my REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES.
This webpage was written to help others as well as myself to understand the real value of friendship and just exactly what it means.
It is what I feel and act upon as what is a real true loyal friendship.
A Real Friend shows respect for their friend but also for others around them.
You see your actions is what people look for in a Real Friend, how you treat others, what you say and do to them.
That's how people decide if they would like to be friends with that person.
A Real Friend is honourable and loyal to their friend.
A Real Friend supports their friend at all times, even when they are right or wrong.
A Real Friend notices that there is something not right with their friend and takes the time to talk to them.
Why, because they care.
A Real Friend listens, and I mean REALLY LISTEN with your heart and have your ears open.
A Real Friend is kind, patient, & understanding.
A Real Friend will not sugar coat the facts, which means they won't tell you lies or other people lies for you.
A Real Friend will tell me if I did something I need to be aware of, be cautious, be careful even if it hurts,
There is an old saying my mum use to say to me and that is,
You sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
A Real Friend backs you up, covers your back so to speak.
A Real Friend will sit and cry with you.
A Real Friend will do things for you without even asking.
A Real Friend will surprise you with something that means the world to you.
A Real Friend will try as best they can NOT to forget their friends' birthday or to do something really special for them.
A Real Friend will show help, support and understanding of their friends' illness.
A Real Friend will research the illness in the hope to understand it more, it shows that your friend wants to help you, stand beside you and that they really do care.
A Real Friend will be there even if you're having a hard time in life.
A Real Friend will give you there honesty, there trust.
A Real Friend HAS THE GUTS AND THE COURAGE TO SAY "I AM SO SORRY"
A Real Friend rings and or emails you to make sure your ok
A Real Friend notices that something is not quite right when you do or say something out of the ordinary.
A Real Friend will do anything they can, no matter what is put in their path to just know that you are safe and sound.
A Real Friend will do anything for you if they can
A Real Friend will find ways to make you smile, laugh, giggle.
A Real Friend will always be there through good and yes even bad times.
A Real Friend loves unconditionally
A Real Friend will not let others hurt them.
A Real Friend will stand up for their friend, even if it means loosing the friendship of another.
A Real Friend will not allow someone to abuse, badger, and harass their friend.
A Real Friend will not let someone threaten them.
A Real Friend will not stand by and let someone bully their friend.
A Real Friend will not sit back and watch bad things happen to their friend; they will get in there right beside their friend and help their friend.
A Real Friend NEVER walks away when the tough gets going.
A Real Friend is compassionate and understanding.
A Real Friend does not YELL at you, just like that and especially in CAPS or voice by raising your voice.
A Real Friend talks to you if you need to let off steam but not go off at them for what others did.
A Real Friend says Thank You for whatever the reason maybe.
A Real Friend speaks out when their friend is being hurt.
A Real Friend does NOT let their friend take the fall for something they did or for their lies and deceit.
A Real Friend does NOT cause their friend to have a nervous breakdown for lying to the innocent.
A Real Friend tells the truth at all times and above all at costs.
A Real Friend goes out of their way for a friend.
A Real Friend does NOT give up on their friends or their friendship.
A Real Friend contacts the relevant authorities to help their friend if they think or feel they are in danger or being threatened or mistreated.
A Real Friend warns you of impending Danger or BAD FEEDS.
A Real Friend lets you know that another friend has been or is sick.
A Real Friend will not let peer pressure get to them.
A Real Friend does not say, I don't want to get involved, try and help to solve it.
A Real Friend does not talk behind their friends back
A Real Friend talks NOT Yells to sort any differences out between two friends.
A Real Friend talks to you if you need to let off steam.
However that Real Friend will not do this, instead they will talk to the person in question.
A Real Friend says Thank You for whatever the reason maybe.
A Real Friend speaks out when their friend is being hurt.
A Real Friend does NOT let their friend take the fall for something they did or for their lies and deceit.
A Real Friend does NOT cause their friend to have a nervous breakdown for lying to the innocent.
A Real Friend tells the truth at all times and above all at costs.
A Real Friend goes out of their way for a friend.
A Real Friend does NOT give up on their friends.
A Real Friend contacts the relevant authorities to help their friend if they think or feel they are in danger or being threatened or mistreated.
A Real Friend does NOT threaten their friend.
A Real Friend does give or make ultimatums towards their friend.
A Real Friend warns you of impending Danger or BAD FEEDS.
A Real Friend lets you know that another friend has been or is sick.
A Real Friend SOMETIMES HAS TO BE CRUEL TO BE KIND
A Real Friend will not let peer pressure get to them.
A Real Friend will not let you take the fall for their's or some else's wrong doings.
A Real Friend will accept you that you are strong willed with strong morals.
A Real Friend does not say you have HATE inside of you when it is the above or being passionate about something.
A Real Friend makes time for you as their friend but that friend also makes time for others even if they are not their friend, they could be total strangers.
Hey that is me if you didn't know.
If you want A Real Friend, give your email so your soon to be new friend can keep in contact with you.
If you don't want a REAL Friendship, DON'T GIVE OUT YOUR EMAIL.
Some people are to ignorant and blind to see what's right in front of their face that I do care and I care enough to keep doing special rooms for you and for causes to help you and remind you on Paltalk.
You can't see past your nose what I do for YOU
You are full of bad thoughts = bad feeds
If only you realised before you had done your deeds.
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