What is A REAL & TRUE, LOYAL, HONOURABLE Friend?
This is for all the people who think they know me and they don't.
Now this is also for those around me, maybe people I know and people I don't know.
It is also for the WHOLE Wide World to read and learn
I guess people have forgotten what it is to have this wonderful true and honest friendship.
I am asking you not telling you.
As you read down the page you will see and maybe notice some of the things that have actually occurred in my REAL life, so in actual fact these are my REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES.
This page has been edited because of what happened to my son and his so called friends.
Sorry I couldn't resist.
This webpage was written to help others as well as myself to understand the real value of friendship and just exactly what it means.
It is what I feel and act upon as what is a real true loyal friendship.
A Real Friend shows respect for their friend but also for others around them.
Giving respect also means don't tell lies.
You see, your actions is what people look for, in a Real Friend,
How you treat others, what you say and do to them.
That's how people decide if they would like to be friends with that person.
A Real Friend is honourable and loyal to their friend.
A Real Friend supports their friend at all times, even when they are right or wrong.
A Real Friend notices that there is something not right with their friend and takes the time to talk to them.
Why, because they care.
They don't say oh it's none of my business.
A Real Friend listens, and I mean REALLY LISTEN with your heart and have your ears open.
A Real Friend is kind, patient, & understanding.
A Real Friend will not sugar coat the facts, which means they won't tell you lies or other people lies for you.
A Real Friend will tell me if I did something I need to be aware of, be cautious, be careful even if it hurts me.
There is an old saying my mum use to say to me and that is,
You sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
A Real Friend backs you up, covers your back so to speak.
A Real Friend will sit and cry with you.
"A Real Friend will do things for you without even asking."
A Real Friend will surprise you with something that means the world to you.
Hmm maybe a special day comes to mind here.
A Real Friend will try as best they can, NOT to forget their "Friends' Birthday" or to do something really special for them and yes without even asking.
This shows how much you truly care and just how much you really value their friendship.
"Actions speak louder than words."
A real TRUE friend will go out of their way to celebrate their friends' birthday with them.
No matter what.
A Real Friend will show help, support and understanding of their friends' illness.
A Real Friend will research the illness in the hope to understand it more, it shows that your friend wants to help you, stand beside you and that they really do care.
A Real Friend will be there even if you're having a hard time in life.
A Real Friend will give you their honesty and there trust.
A Real Friend HAS THE GUTS AND THE COURAGE TO SAY "I AM SO SORRY"
A Real Friend rings and or emails you to make sure your ok.
A Real Friend notices that something is not quite right when you do or say something out of the ordinary or out of the normal of being YOU.
A Real Friend will do anything for you if they can, no matter what is put in their path to just know that you are safe and sound and happy.
A Real Friend will find ways to make you smile, laugh, giggle.
A Real Friend will always be there through good and yes even bad times.
A Real Friend loves unconditionally.
A Real Friend will not let others hurt them.
A Real Friend will stand up for their friend, even if it means loosing the friendship of another.
Or even having people trash you out, attack you for doing what is right by another human being.
A Real Friend will not allow someone to abuse, badger, and harass his or her friend.
A Real Friend will not stand by and let someone bully his or her friend.
A Real Friend will NOT bully you at ALL,"
REMEMBER THIS OK"
"Real Friends DO NOT put you down, degrade you to make themselves look good or smart."
Like I have said REAL TRUE HONEST Friends don't hurt you.
A Real Friend will not let someone threaten them.
A Real Friend will not sit back and watch bad things happen to their friend; they will get right beside their friend and help them.
A Real Friend NEVER walks away when the tough gets going.
However in saying that there are times that YOU really must do what is right for YOU and walk away if the person is toxic.
Or it is just too much for you, sometimes a break is good.
A Real Friend is compassionate and understanding.
A Real Friend does not YELL at you, just like that and especially in CAPS or voice by raising your voice.
Note: In my text I have used caps, I have done so to get your attention, that's all,
I am not yelling at you.
A Real Friend talks NOT Yell or Raise their voice over you to sort any differences out between two friends.
A Real Friend talks to you if you need to let off steam but not go off at them for what others did.
A Real Friend says Thank You for whatever the reason maybe.
A Real Friend appreciates and is grateful of you for being you and for their friendship to you
A Real Friend speaks out when their friend is being hurt.
A Real Friend does NOT let their friend take the fall for something they did or for their lies and deceit.
A Real Friend does NOT cause their friend to have a nervous breakdown for lying to the innocent.
A Real Friend tells the truth at all times and above all at costs.
A Real Friend goes out of their way for a friend.
A Real Friend does NOT give up on their friends or their friendship.
A Real Friend contacts the relevant authorities to help their friend if they think or feel they are in danger or being threatened or mistreated.
A Real Friend does not say, I don't want to get involved
A Real Friend will try and help to solve it.
A Real Friend does not talk badly behind their friends back.
Now if you are giving credit or praising them, that is a good thing.
However that Real Friend will not do this, instead they will talk to the person in question.
A Real Friend says Thank You for whatever the reason maybe.
A Real Friend speaks out when their friend is being hurt.
A Real Friend does NOT let their friend take the fall for something they did or for their lies and deceit.
A Real Friend will not let you take the fall for theirs or some else's wrong doings.
A Real Friend does NOT cause their friend to have a nervous breakdown for lying to the innocent.
A Real Friend tells the truth at all times and above all at costs.
A Real Friend goes out of their way for a friend.
A Real Friend does NOT give up on their friends.
A Real Friend does NOT threaten their friend.
A Real Friend does NOT give or make ultimatums towards their friend.
A Real Friend warns you of impending Danger or BAD FEEDS.
A Real Friend lets you know that another friend has been or is sick.
A Real Friend SOMETIMES HAS TO BE CRUEL TO BE KIND.
A Real Friend will not let peer pressure get to them.
A Real Friend will accept you that you are strong willed with strong morals.
A Real Friend does not say that you have HATE inside of you when it is the any of the above or being passionate about something you feel strongly about.
A Real Friend makes time for you as their friend but that friend also makes time for others even if they are not their friends, they could be total strangers.
Hey that is me if you didn't know.
If you want A Real Friend, give your email or your personal address so you're soon to be new friend can keep in contact with you.
Just in case of emergencies.
You never know when you or they need to write or contact you for whatever reason.
If you don't want a REAL Friendship, DON'T GIVE OUT YOUR EMAIL & or address.
Some people are to darn ignorant and blind to see what's right in front of their face, that I do care and I care enough to keep doing special rooms for people and for causes on paltalk to help you/people and remind you of some important things in life.
This is not just from me but there are many people out in this big wide world we live in that do the same as me if not more.
I am just making you the reader more aware of yourself and maybe your actions.
Something I had learned from a lady named Annie Alchrin a long time ago and that was to take the label off titles, in saying that what it means is this, this writing not just applies to FRIENDS, it applies to everyone, LIKE FAMILY, MOTHERS, DADS, SISTERS, BROTHERS ,Relatives of all titles, and yes people in general.
You get the idea.
You see some of you can't see past your nose what I do for YOU and what others do for you.
PLEASE, Open your eyes and take a good look.
That's all I am asking of you.
I have written this page to remind YOU the reader and to teach/make people more aware worldwide.
I may even write the stories of all of the above, how they came about etc, you never know it may help someone in this world and if I achieve that well good.
Many peoples opinions/comments are bad thoughts = bad feeds
Please don't think bad thoughts, try the good thoughts first, you just never know.
If only the people, who attacked me, trashed me out, realised all of the consequences before they had done their deeds towards me.
Well that's it for me for now.
Please Take Care, Be Safe.
Lu aka heart Of Hush ™
Reaching Out To The WHOLE World.
Written & Copyright ©2008 Heart Of Hush
Updated © 7th August 2010 Heart Of Hush TM
